Fighting and Taming the Devil inside

You and I continue to defend our own mistakes, views, stupidities and what not despite first of all over-powering the bigger devil inside our own self which motivates us to do harm to everyone around us, especially to those who are our loved ones, close friends, co-workers or just acquaintances. That way of living a life is a very dangerous course of action which is bound to bring misery after misery to our own self and injuring us physically and spiritually as well. Trying to win an argument at any cost without looking deeper inside our own self and giving an ear to other person's valid points of views is not a good way to live a life. Such a person will be a complete failure in life even if that person commands the best possible position in this world or has enormous amount of wealth. That person is a hallow one inside having no depths or matter to support his or her being on earth.